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The singer allegedly swallowed a bottle of aspirin after finding out that the man she was dating was a married man and his marriage broke down because of her relationship with him. The singer is said to be recovering and will soon be out of hospital. Antwaun Cook met Fantasia in a T-Mobile store where he worked and he told Fantasia that he had been divorced from his wife and Fantasia believed him as she “fell in love” with him.
So now we ask what would make a man want to leave what he has at home and sneak around with someone else? Some say it is to protect the marriage or the children, but how long can you keep it up for? I believe if you are not happy with someone it is better to leave them rather than sneak around and hurt them even more. The actions and selfishness of one man can turn out to hurt many more people.
Having said that sometimes the women are also to blame. When you know that your husband does not want to be with you anymore and there is nothing else you can do to keep him happy, it is time to let go. For a relationship to work two people need to be totally involved. Some women like to play victims too much. They will never appreciate a man until he leaves them. In a relationship you cannot be complaining about he does not do this and that for me, you have to ask yourself what am I doing for him as well?
Lack of communication. You need to be telling your other half what you are feeling so that they know what they are doing right or wrong ,instead of just keeping it to yourself and then hurting your other half.
What about the children? Well there is no use staying together for the sake of the children. The children will see it and they will start to feel they are responsible for the breakdown of the relationship because they will see you arguing and fighting.
Just make sure you know how to treat your other half right otherwise when they get up and leave you can’t complain because you couldn’t be bothered to appreciate them. Another thing don’t ever feel to throw your life away because someone has hurt you.The best revenge is for them to see you smiling with something brand new.
Why is it all men are the same?
Posted on: July 29, 2010
Why is it all men are the same?
Are all men the same or are women just too damn predictable that they keep doing the same things that chase men away?
Well theoretically speaking all men are the same in the sense that they all have put cleanly a reproductive organ that is the same. Just like all humans are made in the same way everyone has a nose, hands etc. But there are different types of humans, men, women, transsexuals you get the idea. So which must also mean there are different types of men.
So why do most women think all men are the same?
It may be a fact that you keep looking for something new in the same sort of men hence why you get disappointed when you don’t get the new spark you are looking for because you keeping going to meet men in the same area. If you keep going to a basketball court chances are you are always going to meet basketball players all the time which will lead you to think all men are basketball players. Women need to stop being so shallow when they are looking at men, maybe if you would stop ignoring that not so good looking guy, maybe he is what you are looking but because he doesn’t look attractive you won’t give him a chance. Perhaps he has the heart you want and in time you could be attracted to him. Stop looking at the same men be open minded, the guy you least expect is probably the one who has all that you want.
All men want is sex. Women want sex as well, they think about it probably as much as men, but they just hide it well. Women know how to play innocent. Why else would they look out for the guy’s body and looks before they make their move, to look good on their arm but there is more to it. Women also like to lead guys on, we like the attention. I know I don’t want to have sex with him just yet, so every time he makes his move I’ll just say I’m on my period. That is not going to keep him hanging around, he is going to get annoyed. If you don’t want it let him know your intentions form the beginning. Having said stop planning your wedding from the beginning. Get to know him, show him what kind of person you are. Stop the whole he should take you out buy you diamonds and the world, because right there you are showing him that you depend on him not only that, don’t forget he has feelings as well. If he is not able to buy the world for you will you stick around ?
Stop playing the victim. When you tell a guy all men are the same, and things that your last boyfriend did to you, it’s going to make him think, am I going to pay for what other guys did to you? And you make it look like you think less of him already, you have already made up your mind that he is the same as the other guys. It is always possible that a guy had a worse relationship than you were in. Men do have feelings as well, but some do not see the point in dwelling in the past. Keep it interesting stop talking about the past; you need to be enjoying the present and the future with him.
When in a relationship you ought to learn what you want or don’t want, and women we need to stop complaining too much about guys and then just settling for anyone just because we are desperate. We all need to understand that we all need a bit of time alone so that we know who we are before we become a burden to someone else.
All men are not the same ,some women just keep looking for the same thing.
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